๐ค MONONUCLEOSIS (MONO): What Teens & Parents Should Know
What is Mono?
Mononucleosis (often called “mono” or “the kissing disease”) is a viral illness most commonly caused by the Epstein-Barr virus (EBV). It spreads through saliva, but also through sharing drinks, utensils, or close contact (like sneezing or coughing). It’s most common in teens and young adults.
๐ง QUICK FACTS:
- Caused by a virus – antibiotics won’t help.
- Most people recover in 2–4 weeks, but fatigue can last longer.
- Mono is not usually dangerous, but complications can happen (like an enlarged spleen).
- It is recommended to stay out of sports for at least 3 weeks from start of symptoms due to risk of rupture of the spleen.
๐คง COMMON SYMPTOMS:
- Extreme fatigue (can last weeks)
- Sore throat (often severe) with white "pus pockets" called exudate on the tonsils
- Swollen lymph nodes (back of neck and under jaw)
- Fever
- Headache
- Body aches
- Swollen eyes (especially in the morning)
- Rash (less common) - especially if amoxicillin is given for presumed or co-existing Strep throat
- Enlarged spleen or liver (in some cases)
- Jaundice (yellow skin and eyes) is possible
๐งช DIAGNOSIS:
- Physical exam for enlarged lymph nodes, swollen tonsils, jaundice, and enlarged spleen
- Blood tests (like the Monospot or EBV titers, liver tests)
๐ HOW TO TREAT MONO:
There’s no cure—but you can manage symptoms:
- REST as much as possible
- Drink plenty of fluids
- Use acetaminophen or ibuprofen for pain/fever
- Avoid sports or heavy lifting (especially if the spleen is enlarged)
โ ๏ธ Teens with mono should avoid contact sports for at least 3–4 weeks to prevent spleen rupture—a rare but serious complication. Get clearance from your clinician prior to returning to sports.
๐ซ WHEN TO SEE A DOCTOR:
- Severe belly pain (especially left upper side)
- Trouble breathing or swallowing
- Rash after starting antibiotics (some can trigger it with mono)
- Fever lasting more than 10 days
- Yellowing of skin or eyes
๐งผ PREVENTING THE SPREAD:
- Don’t share drinks, food, utensils, lip balm, or toothbrushes
- Avoid kissing while sick
- Wash hands often
Mono isn’t as contagious as the common cold, but it can still spread through close contact.
๐ง GOOD TO KNOW:
- Once you’ve had mono, the virus stays in your body but usually doesn’t cause more problems.
- Most people only get mono once.
- Fatigue can linger—listen to your body and don’t rush back to full activity.
๐ฌ Support Tip for Parents:
Your teen may seem unusually tired or “lazy” during recovery—this is real, not just teenage behavior. Offer encouragement, adjust school/sports expectations, and talk with your doctor about returning to activities safely.

