6 year

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Some babies are born with a short frenulum under the tongue. This inhibits the baby from extending the tongue past the lips.


Many people refer to this condition as "tongue-tied" (medically called ankyloglossia).


The tongue’s frenulum attaches the tongue to the floor of the mouth. It should allow the tongue to extend past the lower gums and lip, elevate to the roof of the mouth, and move from side to side. If it is too thick, too short, or too far toward the tip of the tongue it can affect feeding, speech, tooth placement, and growth of the mouth. 


Not all frenulums that appear thick need to be treated. If the tongue functions well and the baby is feeding successfully, we do not need to do any procedures. Dr. Stuppy has written a summary of the guidelines recommended by otolaryngolosts (ear, nose, and throat specialists) on management of tongue, lip, and cheek ties that you can read here. 


Tongue tie affects about 4 in 100 people. It is more common in boys and there often is a family history of tongue tie.

  • Check your baby’s weight (we check length and head circumference too at standard well visits)
  • Ask about your baby’s feeding, bowel, and sleeping habits
  • Do a physical examination
  • Ask questions about development (in a pre-visit survey- watch for these texts before visits
  • Ask if you have questions or concerns about your baby
  • Update immunizations as recommended per our office schedule and standard guidelines

HOW IS IT TREATED?

We usually schedule the first visit 1-2 days after discharge. You will need to call to schedule this visit. Due to the nature of our scheduling availability, you may be asked to schedule with a member of our team that you have not yet met, but we think you'll like every one of our physicians and nurse practitioners. All have extensive training and experience and work well together to care for our patient families. 


After the first visit newborns usually have several weight checks to be sure they are feeding well and establishing good weight gain. After that, they follow the typical well visit schedule.

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Our physicians take turns seeing newborns in the hospital. You may get to see a face you already know or meet someone new, but we all trust our work teammates to take great care of our patients.

There are times that newborns require evaluation and care from a neonatologist (specialist in newborn care), such as if your baby is premature, has breathing difficulties, is suspected of an infection, or has need of intensive care. The local neonatologists will update us on how your baby is doing before they go home.

In the office

We see newborns at the following hospitals each morning:

WHEN THE TONGUE'S MOVEMENT AFFECTS FEEDING, A FRENOTOMY MAY BE RECOMMENDED

  • Infection
  • Bleeding (usually minor)
  • Swallowed blood can lead to spitting up
  • Damage to salivary glands (rare)
  • Need for more surgery
  • Feeding aversion

After the clipping the underside of the tongue will get a yellowed area (called "granulation tissue"). This is the normal healing tissue and will resolve within a few days.

What if your baby needs special care?

If you will be delivering at another hospital, just give us a call after you deliver to schedule your first visit. Please bring any paperwork given on discharge to your first visit. This may include your baby's birth weight, discharge weight, any lab values - such as bilirubin, screening results (such as hearing and cardiac screens) and any other information provided. This can help us learn about the hospital stay and continue care most effectively.

Newborns are scheduled to see one of our nurse practitioners or pediatricians for each visit. While we know that you will eventually see one of our staff primarily, initially it may be necessary to schedule with another person.

We all trust each other to work within our team, and newborns present the unique circumstance of needing a visit without much notice. Most of our routine well visits are scheduled 2-3 months in advance, so we hold spots for newborns, but it may not be with the person you will choose to see long term. We know this is not ideal because you want to introduce your baby to your chosen practitioner, but we cannot all have newborn spots open or it would cause scheduling issues for all the other patients - including your family long term. While we each have our unique personalities and bedside manners, we all follow standard care guidelines and will take great care of your little one!

If you want to learn more about us, check out the 
videos we have from each of our pediatricians, about our office locations, general medical advice we give and more.

Learn about each of the 
physicians and nurse practitioners on our individual pages.

  • Work with lactation to improve latch
  • Work with a speech pathologist or occupational therapist for feeding therapy

Kansas and Missouri each have routine newborn screens that are done in the hospital or birthing center to identify conditions that can be dangerous when not treated but not easily identified on a physical exam alone. The goal is to identify and treat diseases early enough to prevent serious complications such as growth problems, developmental delays, intellectual disabilities, blindness, deafness, and seizures.

You can learn more about the screenings from:

Risks of clipping:

Treatment of tongue tie involves lifting the tongue and clipping the frenulum (frenotomy).

A frenotomy can be done by trained pediatricians, ENTs, or dentists. Some of our pediatricians have this training, so if you're concerned we can make sure you get scheduled with one of them for an evaluation. ​There are local dentists who do a laser procedure, but this is more expensive and has not been shown to offer any benefit. (See Dr. Stuppy's review of guidelines for more details.)

​The frenulum does not have nerves for pain, and most newborns tolerate the procedure well without any anesthetic. We usually ask that they feed immediately after the procedure to assess their feeding. 

It is recommended if the frenulum is very thick, posterior, very vascular or if there is a family history of bleeding disorders that an ENT specialist does the procedure.

We work as a team at Pediatric Partners - from the front desk receptionists, to our nursing staff, to our nurse practitioners and pediatricians, we're all here to take the best care of your family!

  • Advent Health -Shawnee Mission
  • Overland Park Regional Medical Center

In the hospital

Most of the time we can start our relationship at the hospital when we see your baby soon after birth, but sometimes we begin care after they are discharged from the hospital. We generally see babies in our office 1-2 days after they are discharged from the newborn nursery or NICU.


If you choose our office, be sure to let the hospital know who your pediatrician will be. The hospitals call us after the baby is delivered and we will see you each morning.


One of our physicians will round each morning in the hospital to check on your baby, see how feeding is going, and treat most problems that arise. Most babies are in the hospital 2-3 days and we see them on daily rounds to evaluate how they are feeding, how much weight loss they have, perform a physical exam, and discuss parental concerns.


As mentioned above, we work as a team. Our pediatricians take turns rounding each day, so you may meet several of us during your stay at one of the above hospitals and it may not be the pediatrician you plan to see long term in our office, but we will be sure that person hears all about your baby. 

What if you're delivering somewhere else?

We occasionally care for babies in the Newborn Intensive Care Nursery (NICU) if they are there for a short time and for minor issues.

We have a relationship with the Neonatologists (specialists in sick and premature newborn care) at each of the hospitals. They help care for the infants who are requiring more specialized care and let us know when they're ready to see us.

Alternates to frenotomy:

During the visit we will :

A newborn with a noticeable tongue-tie, characterized by a short, tight lingual frenulum restricting tongue movement.
Close-up of a newborn with an open mouth, showing the tongue and gums.

The pictures are the same baby before and after the frenulum was clipped.

Three panels showing an uncircumcised penis, a healing circumcised penis with granulation tissue, and a healed penis.

PROCEDURE DESCRIPTIONS

MOGEN CLAMP:

The type of procedure done is dependent on the training and experience of the person performing the procedure. Risks and benefits overall are similar. The final "look" of the penis will be the same after the first week.

Both types use a local anesthetic called lidocaine to numb the area. This injection may sting initially (sugar and a pacifier are used to help pain control for the sting) and the injection may leave a bruise at the base of the penis. Babies can still feel the cold of the cleaning product we use to decrease risk of infection and they can still feel tugging, but the sharp pains of the procedure are lessened with the lidocaine. The foreskin is pulled away from the head of the penis (aka glans). 

The remainder of the procedure done and aftercare depends on the type of circumcision.

There are two main types of circumcision, one that leaves a plastic ring (Plastibell) on the head of the penis, and another that removes the foreskin and is left open with petrolatum jelly on gauze.

Care depends on the procedure done. After a baby's circumcision, it takes about a week to heal regardless of the method used. 

After the healing has taken place, no special care is needed other than routine cleaning.

We recommend putting petroleum jelly on the head of the penis during the healing process to keep it from sticking to the diaper. If stool gets to the area, simply rinse with water without rubbing the area much. Reapply petroleum jelly each diaper change. We suggest you do not use any creamy products or lotions on the healing penis, as they cause irritation. 



  • The foreskin is pulled up and the clamp is placed over the glans, to protect it from being cut.
  • The clamp puts pressure on the tissues to prevent bleeding.
  • The foreskin above the clamp is removed.
  • No stitches are needed unless there is excessive bleeding, which is a rare complication.
  • The head of the penis will look open and raw during the healing process. This is normal!
  • Change the gauze pad with petrolatum jelly (Vaseline) with diaper changes since it will be soiled. 
  • Rinse the head of the penis with water if stool (poop, bowel movement, meconium) gets on it, but usually simply changing the gauze is sufficient.
  • Continue to place Vaseline gauze on the head of the penis until it is healed. You will know when it is healed when there are no more red or yellow areas.
  • If there are signs of infection, such as redness of the penis shaft, temperature over 100.4F, poor feeding or fussiness, your baby should be evaluated.

Sometimes the penis will sink into the fat pad surrounding it, allowing the skin to reattach over time.



If your child's foreskin comes back over the head of the penis, push back on the fat pad to pull the skin off the head of the penis with diaper changes. Apply petrolatum jelly (Vaseline) to the area to prevent sticking.

If it does stick, it is called an adhesion. This usually doesn't cause any problems - remember that uncircumcised penises generally pull away from the foreskin over the pre-pubertal years. The adhesions of a circumcised penis will also naturally pull away over time. If they cause pain, they should be addressed. 

A white substance called smegma sometimes is seen around the edges of the head of the penis. This looks like cottage cheese and is sometimes mistaken for pus. It is not pus and is a normal substance made by the penis. Gentle removal with a moist cloth is all that's needed if it's bothersome.

Circumcision types and care

The foreskin is attached to the head of the penis at birth and will usually naturally pull away over the first few years of life. A white substance may be seen as the foreskin pulls back. This is smegma and normal, not a sign of infection.

As long as the foreskin doesn’t easily retract, only the outside skin needs to be cleaned.


If the foreskin retracts a little, clean only the exposed area with water. Don’t use soap on this area - this can irritate the skin. After cleaning always replace the foreskin back over the head of the penis. 


As your child gets older and the foreskin has completely separated and retracts easily, begin to teach him to clean underneath it as he bathes. 


If the foreskin does not naturally pull away from the head of the penis an this causes painful erections, bring your child in for an evaluation of the situation.

Uncircumcised penis

A WORD ABOUT ADHESIONS...

After the Mogen Clamp it will look bright red and swollen initially, then less swollen. As it heals, yellow granulation tissue appears on the head of the penis. This is normal and NOT an infection. 

PLASTIBELL

  • A plastic ring (Plastibell) is inserted between the head of the penis and the foreskin and tied off.
  • The ring is left in place until it falls off naturally, generally 3-7 days later. 
  • Routine cleaning with diaper changes is done.
  • If the ring does not fall off within 14 days or if it slips down the shaft of the penis, bring your baby in to be evaluated. This is an emergency if it seems red, tender, or your baby has a temperature over 100.5F, is fussy or not feeding well.
  • Track your child's development with FREE online tools
  • Find developmental milestone information so you can keep track at home.
  • Pathways offers resources for infant and child development.
  • Zero to Three offers resources for infant and child development and parenting.
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Milestone Tracking and Tools to Maximize Your Child's Development

Childcare can be done in a person's home or in an established child care center. There are pros and cons to each, so consider your family's needs to start your search. 

ChildCare Aware has a searchable database to help locate childcare providers, check licensing of childcare providers and see inspection reports. Click on the state to find providers in 
Kansas and Missouri.

To help locate a childcare provider, learn how to find the best childcare, and more use this searchable database: 
Childcare.gov. Use their Tip Sheets to help find the best care for your child(ren).

Local Resources to Optimize Development

  • Parents As Teachers works with parents to teach them how to teach their infants through 3 year olds. 
  • Infant and Toddler Services provides therapies for Kansas infants and toddlers through 3 years of age with delays in developmental skills, such as speech and language or gross motor skills. 
  • First Steps provides therapies for Missouri infants and toddlers through 3 years of age with developmental delays.

Daycare:

Colic (Fussy baby) Resources:

Hot Topic: Be on the Lookout for Learning and Behavior Challenges 

As your child progresses through early elementary school, it's essential to monitor their learning and behavior to ensure they're thriving academically, socially, and emotionally. 


Learning Challenges:

  • Reading Difficulties:
  • Struggles with letter recognition, phonics, or decoding words.
  • Difficulty comprehending what is read.
  • Avoidance of reading-related activities.
  • Mathematics Challenges:
  • Difficulty understanding basic math concepts (e.g., addition, subtraction, multiplication).
  • Trouble with number sense or basic arithmetic.
  • Resistance to math-related tasks.
  • Writing Problems:
  • Poor handwriting or letter formation.
  • Difficulty organizing thoughts and expressing ideas in writing.
  • Reluctance to engage in writing activities.
  • Attention Issues:
  • Difficulty staying focused on tasks or following instructions.
  • Impulsivity or acting without considering consequences.
  • Distractibility and trouble completing assignments.

Behavioral Challenges:

  • Social Interaction Problems:
  • Difficulty making friends or maintaining positive relationships with peers.
  • Social withdrawal or isolation.
  • Conflict with classmates or frequent arguments.
  • Emotional Regulation Issues:
  • Frequent outbursts of anger or frustration.
  • Difficulty managing emotions such as anxiety or sadness.
  • Tearfulness or mood swings without apparent cause.
  • Executive Functioning Difficulties:
  • Trouble with organization and time management.
  • Forgetfulness or losing belongings frequently.
  • Difficulty planning and completing tasks independently.
  • Hyperactivity or Impulsivity:
  • Excessive fidgeting or restlessness.
  • Difficulty sitting still for extended periods.
  • Acting impulsively without considering consequences.

When to Seek Support:

If you notice any of these signs persisting over time or significantly impacting your child's academic performance, social interactions, or emotional well-being, it's essential to seek support.

Consider reaching out to:

  • Your child's teacher or school counselor to discuss your concerns and explore potential interventions.
  • The Pediatric Partners Behavioral Health Clinician and/or your primary provider. A dedicated visit to discuss your concerns (not just mentioning at your well visit) is recommended. 
  • Educational specialists or behavioral therapists who can provide targeted support and interventions tailored to your child's needs may be recommended, but we're happy to discuss issues with you first.

Early identification and intervention are key to addressing learning and behavioral challenges effectively and helping your child succeed in school and beyond. Find more resources on these pages of our website.



If your child is afraid at the doctor's office, have them watch this short video to learn what will happen.

Feeding & Nutrition

  • Children can eat a wide variety of foods as long as the diet is balanced. Parents decide what is offered; kids decide how much to eat. If your child prefers one type of food, serve it after other healthy options to ensure balance.
  • Snacks can be considered mini-meals. Offer nutritious options and keep desserts as occasional treats.
  • Aim for a plant (fruit or vegetable) plus a protein at each meal to help meet the recommended five servings of fruits and vegetables per day.
  • Let your child help serve and prepare food. This develops skills and often encourages picky eaters to try more foods.
  • Limit juice and sugary snacks. Juice provides little nutrition and is high in sugar.
  • Low-fat milk is appropriate, but limit to 24 ounces daily. Too much milk can fill kids up and reduce intake of other nutrient-rich foods, risking deficiencies in iron and vitamins.
  • All children should receive vitamin D supplementation (and iron supplements if diet alone is insufficient).

Growth, Development, & Health

  • Help your child feel comfortable in new settings. Reading stories or role-playing social situations can help.
  • Read together daily. Ask your child what might happen next or to describe the pictures. Take turns reading and encourage them to summarize stories.
  • Praise positive behaviors at least twice as often as you redirect negative behaviors. Focus on the good!
  • Maintain healthy sleep routines.
  • Bedwetting is normal at this age and related to deep sleep. Do not punish—ask your doctor for strategies if it is a concern.
  • Nightmares and anxieties are common. Validate fears and teach coping strategies. Behavioral therapy may be helpful if concerns persist.
  • Children can get 8–12 viral infections per year, each lasting 2–3 weeks, especially during cold and flu season. Smoke exposure and daycare attendance increase risk.
  • Fever (temperature >100.4°F under the arm) is a natural response to infection. Treat only if uncomfortable. Use our Is Your Child Sick section to help manage symptoms at home.
  • Establish care with a pediatric dentist if you haven’t already. Check your insurance for coverage.

Safety

  • Keep medications, cleaning products, and other toxins out of reach. Secure furniture to walls. Charlie’s House is a helpful local childproofing resource.
  • Drowning prevention: Never leave children alone in bathtubs or near pools. Empty buckets and wading pools immediately after use.
  • Car safety: Continue using a 5-point harness until your child outgrows it, then use a booster seat. Kids should remain in the back seat until a proper adult seat belt fits. Lock your car when not in use.
  • Street safety: Teach children to stay off streets when playing and to look both ways before crossing.
  • Helmets and protective shoes are required for bikes, scooters, Big Wheels, etc. No open-toed shoes.
  • Bug spray with DEET is recommended when outdoors.
  • Keep the poison control number in your phone: 1-800-222-1222.
  • Brush teeth twice daily with a pea-sized amount of fluoridated toothpaste. Regular dental visits are important.
  • Water heater should be set below 120°F to prevent burns.
  • If you own guns, ensure they are locked and unloaded, with ammunition stored separately.
  • Apply sunscreen 30 minutes before sun exposure; reapply every 2 hours.
  • Never smoke or vape around children—secondhand and thirdhand smoke are harmful.
  • Screen time: Monitor usage and content. Use the 5C’s guidance: HealthyChildren.org 5C’s and make a Family Media Plan.
  • In crowds, have your child carry or wear your contact info until they know it by heart and can repeat it, even when scared.
  • If you have concerns about living or food security, contact community agencies such as WIC or SNAP. See our Community Resources Page.
  • If you experience domestic violence, seek help through Safehome or other confidential resources.
  • Check smoke and carbon monoxide detectors regularly and replace batteries as needed.
  • All parents should learn CPR and refresh skills every 2 years. Search online for local classes.
  • Always leave contact info with babysitters. See our Babysitter page for tips.

Looking ahead to the 7-year visit:

  • We’ll discuss:
  • Your child’s growth, development, and social-emotional progress
  • School and learning concerns
  • Taking care of your family and yourself
  • Annual well visits are for prevention.
  • If there are ongoing concerns, please schedule a separate visit to dedicate the appropriate amount of time to evaluate these issues.
  • If you or a teacher has concerns about behavior or development, please schedule a separate visit.
  • ​Vaccines:
  • Review which vaccines your child may need on our immunization pages before the visit so you can have your questions ready!
  • We will offer seasonal and catch-up vaccines as needed.

Planning ahead: Middle and high schools in Kansas require sports physicals to be completed after May 1st but before the season. If your child does annual well visits outside the summer months, start adjusting by 3 months at a time to get to a summer schedule. ​

Resources

Some pages you might find helpful at this age include:

  • Family Media Plan - help your family use screen time wisely
  • Separation Anxiety
  • Learn what's normal and what's not about child sexual behaviors.
  • Picky Eaters
  • Nutrition This page has several articles related to feeding your child.
  • Immunizations This page has answers to all your questions about the vaccines we give and what to expect after vaccinations.
  • Safety This page has a large number of subtopics to learn all about safety and prevention topics for your family.
  • Parenting Tips This page has tips on sibling rivalry, tooth care, sleep and more. 
  • Is your child sick? This page has a searchable list of articles to help manage illnesses.
  • Start talking about private parts in swimsuit areas if you haven't already and learn what you can do to help prevent sexual abuse.
  • Some kids will wet the bed until early adolescent years. Never punish a child for having night time accidents because they cannot control what they do when sleeping. If you are concerned about night time wetting, bring it up at your visit. 
  • Medicine dosages Always make sure you're giving the right amount of medication to your child.
  • How to give your child medications
  • Special Needs for those of you with children who have special needs.
  • ADHDKC is our local CHADD chapter. They offer free monthly events for parents, teens, and adults living with ADHD and associated conditions. No diagnosis is required - just an interest to learn!