11-12 year

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Some babies are born with a short frenulum under the tongue. This inhibits the baby from extending the tongue past the lips.


Many people refer to this condition as "tongue-tied" (medically called ankyloglossia).


The tongue’s frenulum attaches the tongue to the floor of the mouth. It should allow the tongue to extend past the lower gums and lip, elevate to the roof of the mouth, and move from side to side. If it is too thick, too short, or too far toward the tip of the tongue it can affect feeding, speech, tooth placement, and growth of the mouth. 


Not all frenulums that appear thick need to be treated. If the tongue functions well and the baby is feeding successfully, we do not need to do any procedures. Dr. Stuppy has written a summary of the guidelines recommended by otolaryngolosts (ear, nose, and throat specialists) on management of tongue, lip, and cheek ties that you can read here. 


Tongue tie affects about 4 in 100 people. It is more common in boys and there often is a family history of tongue tie.

  • Check your baby’s weight (we check length and head circumference too at standard well visits)
  • Ask about your baby’s feeding, bowel, and sleeping habits
  • Do a physical examination
  • Ask questions about development (in a pre-visit survey- watch for these texts before visits
  • Ask if you have questions or concerns about your baby
  • Update immunizations as recommended per our office schedule and standard guidelines

HOW IS IT TREATED?

We usually schedule the first visit 1-2 days after discharge. You will need to call to schedule this visit. Due to the nature of our scheduling availability, you may be asked to schedule with a member of our team that you have not yet met, but we think you'll like every one of our physicians and nurse practitioners. All have extensive training and experience and work well together to care for our patient families. 


After the first visit newborns usually have several weight checks to be sure they are feeding well and establishing good weight gain. After that, they follow the typical well visit schedule.

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Our physicians take turns seeing newborns in the hospital. You may get to see a face you already know or meet someone new, but we all trust our work teammates to take great care of our patients.

There are times that newborns require evaluation and care from a neonatologist (specialist in newborn care), such as if your baby is premature, has breathing difficulties, is suspected of an infection, or has need of intensive care. The local neonatologists will update us on how your baby is doing before they go home.

In the office

We see newborns at the following hospitals each morning:

WHEN THE TONGUE'S MOVEMENT AFFECTS FEEDING, A FRENOTOMY MAY BE RECOMMENDED

  • Infection
  • Bleeding (usually minor)
  • Swallowed blood can lead to spitting up
  • Damage to salivary glands (rare)
  • Need for more surgery
  • Feeding aversion

After the clipping the underside of the tongue will get a yellowed area (called "granulation tissue"). This is the normal healing tissue and will resolve within a few days.

What if your baby needs special care?

If you will be delivering at another hospital, just give us a call after you deliver to schedule your first visit. Please bring any paperwork given on discharge to your first visit. This may include your baby's birth weight, discharge weight, any lab values - such as bilirubin, screening results (such as hearing and cardiac screens) and any other information provided. This can help us learn about the hospital stay and continue care most effectively.

Newborns are scheduled to see one of our nurse practitioners or pediatricians for each visit. While we know that you will eventually see one of our staff primarily, initially it may be necessary to schedule with another person.

We all trust each other to work within our team, and newborns present the unique circumstance of needing a visit without much notice. Most of our routine well visits are scheduled 2-3 months in advance, so we hold spots for newborns, but it may not be with the person you will choose to see long term. We know this is not ideal because you want to introduce your baby to your chosen practitioner, but we cannot all have newborn spots open or it would cause scheduling issues for all the other patients - including your family long term. While we each have our unique personalities and bedside manners, we all follow standard care guidelines and will take great care of your little one!

If you want to learn more about us, check out the 
videos we have from each of our pediatricians, about our office locations, general medical advice we give and more.

Learn about each of the 
physicians and nurse practitioners on our individual pages.

  • Work with lactation to improve latch
  • Work with a speech pathologist or occupational therapist for feeding therapy

Kansas and Missouri each have routine newborn screens that are done in the hospital or birthing center to identify conditions that can be dangerous when not treated but not easily identified on a physical exam alone. The goal is to identify and treat diseases early enough to prevent serious complications such as growth problems, developmental delays, intellectual disabilities, blindness, deafness, and seizures.

You can learn more about the screenings from:

Risks of clipping:

Treatment of tongue tie involves lifting the tongue and clipping the frenulum (frenotomy).

A frenotomy can be done by trained pediatricians, ENTs, or dentists. Some of our pediatricians have this training, so if you're concerned we can make sure you get scheduled with one of them for an evaluation. ​There are local dentists who do a laser procedure, but this is more expensive and has not been shown to offer any benefit. (See Dr. Stuppy's review of guidelines for more details.)

​The frenulum does not have nerves for pain, and most newborns tolerate the procedure well without any anesthetic. We usually ask that they feed immediately after the procedure to assess their feeding. 

It is recommended if the frenulum is very thick, posterior, very vascular or if there is a family history of bleeding disorders that an ENT specialist does the procedure.

We work as a team at Pediatric Partners - from the front desk receptionists, to our nursing staff, to our nurse practitioners and pediatricians, we're all here to take the best care of your family!

  • Advent Health -Shawnee Mission
  • Overland Park Regional Medical Center

In the hospital

Most of the time we can start our relationship at the hospital when we see your baby soon after birth, but sometimes we begin care after they are discharged from the hospital. We generally see babies in our office 1-2 days after they are discharged from the newborn nursery or NICU.


If you choose our office, be sure to let the hospital know who your pediatrician will be. The hospitals call us after the baby is delivered and we will see you each morning.


One of our physicians will round each morning in the hospital to check on your baby, see how feeding is going, and treat most problems that arise. Most babies are in the hospital 2-3 days and we see them on daily rounds to evaluate how they are feeding, how much weight loss they have, perform a physical exam, and discuss parental concerns.


As mentioned above, we work as a team. Our pediatricians take turns rounding each day, so you may meet several of us during your stay at one of the above hospitals and it may not be the pediatrician you plan to see long term in our office, but we will be sure that person hears all about your baby. 

What if you're delivering somewhere else?

We occasionally care for babies in the Newborn Intensive Care Nursery (NICU) if they are there for a short time and for minor issues.

We have a relationship with the Neonatologists (specialists in sick and premature newborn care) at each of the hospitals. They help care for the infants who are requiring more specialized care and let us know when they're ready to see us.

Alternates to frenotomy:

During the visit we will :

A newborn with a noticeable tongue-tie, characterized by a short, tight lingual frenulum restricting tongue movement.
Close-up of a newborn with an open mouth, showing the tongue and gums.

The pictures are the same baby before and after the frenulum was clipped.

Three panels showing an uncircumcised penis, a healing circumcised penis with granulation tissue, and a healed penis.

PROCEDURE DESCRIPTIONS

MOGEN CLAMP:

The type of procedure done is dependent on the training and experience of the person performing the procedure. Risks and benefits overall are similar. The final "look" of the penis will be the same after the first week.

Both types use a local anesthetic called lidocaine to numb the area. This injection may sting initially (sugar and a pacifier are used to help pain control for the sting) and the injection may leave a bruise at the base of the penis. Babies can still feel the cold of the cleaning product we use to decrease risk of infection and they can still feel tugging, but the sharp pains of the procedure are lessened with the lidocaine. The foreskin is pulled away from the head of the penis (aka glans). 

The remainder of the procedure done and aftercare depends on the type of circumcision.

There are two main types of circumcision, one that leaves a plastic ring (Plastibell) on the head of the penis, and another that removes the foreskin and is left open with petrolatum jelly on gauze.

Care depends on the procedure done. After a baby's circumcision, it takes about a week to heal regardless of the method used. 

After the healing has taken place, no special care is needed other than routine cleaning.

We recommend putting petroleum jelly on the head of the penis during the healing process to keep it from sticking to the diaper. If stool gets to the area, simply rinse with water without rubbing the area much. Reapply petroleum jelly each diaper change. We suggest you do not use any creamy products or lotions on the healing penis, as they cause irritation. 



  • The foreskin is pulled up and the clamp is placed over the glans, to protect it from being cut.
  • The clamp puts pressure on the tissues to prevent bleeding.
  • The foreskin above the clamp is removed.
  • No stitches are needed unless there is excessive bleeding, which is a rare complication.
  • The head of the penis will look open and raw during the healing process. This is normal!
  • Change the gauze pad with petrolatum jelly (Vaseline) with diaper changes since it will be soiled. 
  • Rinse the head of the penis with water if stool (poop, bowel movement, meconium) gets on it, but usually simply changing the gauze is sufficient.
  • Continue to place Vaseline gauze on the head of the penis until it is healed. You will know when it is healed when there are no more red or yellow areas.
  • If there are signs of infection, such as redness of the penis shaft, temperature over 100.4F, poor feeding or fussiness, your baby should be evaluated.

Sometimes the penis will sink into the fat pad surrounding it, allowing the skin to reattach over time.



If your child's foreskin comes back over the head of the penis, push back on the fat pad to pull the skin off the head of the penis with diaper changes. Apply petrolatum jelly (Vaseline) to the area to prevent sticking.

If it does stick, it is called an adhesion. This usually doesn't cause any problems - remember that uncircumcised penises generally pull away from the foreskin over the pre-pubertal years. The adhesions of a circumcised penis will also naturally pull away over time. If they cause pain, they should be addressed. 

A white substance called smegma sometimes is seen around the edges of the head of the penis. This looks like cottage cheese and is sometimes mistaken for pus. It is not pus and is a normal substance made by the penis. Gentle removal with a moist cloth is all that's needed if it's bothersome.

Circumcision types and care

The foreskin is attached to the head of the penis at birth and will usually naturally pull away over the first few years of life. A white substance may be seen as the foreskin pulls back. This is smegma and normal, not a sign of infection.

As long as the foreskin doesn’t easily retract, only the outside skin needs to be cleaned.


If the foreskin retracts a little, clean only the exposed area with water. Don’t use soap on this area - this can irritate the skin. After cleaning always replace the foreskin back over the head of the penis. 


As your child gets older and the foreskin has completely separated and retracts easily, begin to teach him to clean underneath it as he bathes. 


If the foreskin does not naturally pull away from the head of the penis an this causes painful erections, bring your child in for an evaluation of the situation.

Uncircumcised penis

A WORD ABOUT ADHESIONS...

After the Mogen Clamp it will look bright red and swollen initially, then less swollen. As it heals, yellow granulation tissue appears on the head of the penis. This is normal and NOT an infection. 

PLASTIBELL

  • A plastic ring (Plastibell) is inserted between the head of the penis and the foreskin and tied off.
  • The ring is left in place until it falls off naturally, generally 3-7 days later. 
  • Routine cleaning with diaper changes is done.
  • If the ring does not fall off within 14 days or if it slips down the shaft of the penis, bring your baby in to be evaluated. This is an emergency if it seems red, tender, or your baby has a temperature over 100.5F, is fussy or not feeding well.
  • Track your child's development with FREE online tools
  • Find developmental milestone information so you can keep track at home.
  • Pathways offers resources for infant and child development.
  • Zero to Three offers resources for infant and child development and parenting.
  • Did you know you can sign up for free weekly texts coinciding with your due date to help with every stage of pregnancy and the baby's first year? Visit text4baby for more details. 

Milestone Tracking and Tools to Maximize Your Child's Development

Childcare can be done in a person's home or in an established child care center. There are pros and cons to each, so consider your family's needs to start your search. 

ChildCare Aware has a searchable database to help locate childcare providers, check licensing of childcare providers and see inspection reports. Click on the state to find providers in 
Kansas and Missouri.

To help locate a childcare provider, learn how to find the best childcare, and more use this searchable database: 
Childcare.gov. Use their Tip Sheets to help find the best care for your child(ren).

Local Resources to Optimize Development

  • Parents As Teachers works with parents to teach them how to teach their infants through 3 year olds. 
  • Infant and Toddler Services provides therapies for Kansas infants and toddlers through 3 years of age with delays in developmental skills, such as speech and language or gross motor skills. 
  • First Steps provides therapies for Missouri infants and toddlers through 3 years of age with developmental delays.

Daycare:

Colic (Fussy baby) Resources:

For next year's scheduling:

In Kansas student athletes should do these annual well visits over the summer to be able to complete sports physical forms. In Missouri the physicals can be done after February first, so Missouri students have a bit more flexibility. Learn more on our Sports physical page.

Hot Topic: ​Mental Health Tips for Adolescents

Navigating adolescence can be both exciting and challenging as you face new experiences, responsibilities, and emotions. Taking care of your mental health is essential for your overall well-being and resilience during this transformative period. Here are some tips to help you prioritize your mental health:


1. Practice Self-Care:

  • Make time for activities that you enjoy and that help you relax, whether it's reading, listening to music, drawing, or spending time outdoors.
  • Get plenty of sleep each night to support your physical and emotional health.
  • Eat a balanced diet with plenty of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins to fuel your body and mind.

2. Stay Active:

  • Regular physical activity can help reduce stress, improve mood, and boost self-esteem. Find activities you enjoy, whether it's playing sports, dancing, or going for a walk or run.

3. Connect with Others:

  • Cultivate positive relationships with friends, family members, teachers, and other supportive adults who can provide encouragement and understanding.
  • Share your thoughts and feelings with someone you trust, whether it's a friend, family member, or mental health professional.

4. Practice Mindfulness:

  • Incorporate mindfulness techniques into your daily routine, such as deep breathing exercises, meditation, or yoga, to help manage stress and increase self-awareness.

5. Set Realistic Goals:

  • Break down larger goals into smaller, achievable steps, and celebrate your progress along the way.
  • Be kind to yourself and recognize that it's okay to make mistakes or face setbacks. Learn from these experiences and keep moving forward.

6. Screen Time:

  • Set boundaries around screen time, including social media, gaming, and internet use, to prevent feelings of overwhelm and promote a healthy balance between online and offline activities.
  • If you recognize that social media is making you feel bad in any way, take a break for a bit. Interact with others in real life. Remember that online personas are not the whole person - they might look great on their timeline, but struggle with life too. If anyone is bullying you, get help from a parent or the school resource officer.

7. Seek Help When Needed:

  • Don't hesitate to reach out for support if you're struggling with your mental health. Talk to a parent, school counselor, teacher, or someone here at Pediatric Partners. We can connect you with resources and support services.

8. Practice Gratitude:

  • Take time each day to reflect on the things you're grateful for, whether it's the support of loved ones, moments of joy, or personal achievements. Practicing gratitude can help shift your focus to the positive aspects of life.

Remember:

Your mental health is just as important as your physical health, and it's okay to prioritize self-care and seek support when needed. By implementing these tips and developing healthy coping strategies, you can build resilience and thrive during adolescence and beyond.


What to Expect at Your Visit

  • You may have time alone with your provider for private questions.
  • You’ll learn about your body, emotions, and health.
  • Puberty changes will be checked (breast development in girls, penis and testicles in boys). This helps track growth, puberty progress, and overall health.
  • A chaperone (parent or nurse per the patient's preference) will be present during private exams for your protection.

Confidentiality for adolescents:

  • Most conversations with your provider stay private (confidential) by law.
  • Exceptions: risk of harm to yourself or others, or suspected abuse.
  • Sometimes your physician or nurse practitioner may encourage you to share information with your parent, especially if follow-up care is needed.

For Parents

  • Support your child through school challenges, bullying, and behavior concerns by partnering with teachers and counselors.
  • Bedwetting can still be normal at this age—never punish. Bring it up if it’s a concern.
  • Create a Family Media Plan and set healthy boundaries with screens.
  • Consider the Wait Until 8th pledge to delay smartphones.

Nutrition & Exercise

  • Offer balanced meals with fruits, veggies, protein, and whole grains. Limit sugar and juice.
  • Most teens need supplements.
  • Females: Iron, calcium, vitamin D, and folic acid supplementation is important. An easy way to get everything in one supplement is a prenatal vitamin. Yes, adolescents are "old enough" to take these - and the nutrients are especially needed once menstruation starts.
  • Males: Calcium, vitamin D, protein, and sometimes iron are key. Vitamin D supplementation is recommended because this is not found in foods in sufficient quantities.
  • Family meals improve both nutrition and mental health. Plan to eat together regularly!
  • Kids need 60 minutes of activity daily (sports, biking, dancing, swimming, or active play).

Health & Safety

  • Tweens catch 8–12 viral infections a year — illness is common!
  • Talk early about vaping, smoking, alcohol, drugs, and peer pressure.
  • Practice safe tech use: monitor online activity and talk about what they see and share.
  • Always wear seatbelts and helmets; keep cars and homes smoke-free.
  • Secure firearms unloaded and locked, with ammunition stored separately.
  • Sunscreen and insect repellent (DEET) protect skin and health.
  • ASK (Autoimmunity Screening for Kids) is a free, research-based program that screens for T1D and celiac disease.
  • For people 1 to 99 years old
  • No family history of T1D required
  • No current or past diagnosis of diabetes
  • Visit AskHealth.org to learn more.

Mental Health

  • Support your child’s emotional health with daily conversations, family time, and connection at school.
  • Teach about the 988 — the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.
  • Recognize warning signs of depression, self-harm, or bullying.
  • Encourage activities that build confidence and friendships without overscheduling.
  • Reach out to us if you need help!

The Teen Brain

Brains are still developing! Watch The Teen Brain short film at letitripple.org/theteenbrain to understand these important years.


Looking Ahead to Next Year’s Visit

  • Annual well visits are for prevention.
  • If there are ongoing concerns, please schedule a separate visit to dedicate the appropriate amount of time to evaluate these issues.
  • If you or a teacher has concerns about behavior or development, please schedule a separate visit.
  • At your annual well visit we’ll update school, sport, and camp forms and talk about:
  • Caring for yourself, your family, and your relationships.
  • Growth, development, and school progress.
  • Social-emotional health.
  • Lab screening (cholesterol and triglycerides if missed or abnormal earlier).

Vaccines:

  • HPV vaccine prevents cancers — best before the teen years.
  • 2 doses (before age 15)
  • 3 doses (if started at 15 or later)
  • Tdap and meningitis vaccines are required for middle school.
  • Seasonal or catch-up vaccines as needed.

✅ Review vaccines before your visit.

✅ Schedule annual visits in time for sports and camps.

Resources

Some pages you might find helpful at this age include:



The Teen Brain

Directed by Emmy-nominated director Tiffany Shlain and executive produced by Goldie Hawn and MindUP, The Teen Brain is a 10-minute short film that explores what's happening in the teenage brain, illuminating that teenagers are emotionally brilliant super-learners with brains that are undergoing rapid and significant remodeling and development. Based on the latest research on adolescence, and showcasing both teens and doctors and psychologists, The Teen Brain offers tools to stay balanced and navigate the powerful adolescent years. After watching, find more resources at letitripple.org/theteenbrain.