1 Month
Some babies are born with a short frenulum under the tongue. This inhibits the baby from extending the tongue past the lips.
Many people refer to this condition as "tongue-tied" (medically called ankyloglossia).
The tongue’s frenulum attaches the tongue to the floor of the mouth. It should allow the tongue to extend past the lower gums and lip, elevate to the roof of the mouth, and move from side to side. If it is too thick, too short, or too far toward the tip of the tongue it can affect feeding, speech, tooth placement, and growth of the mouth.
Not all frenulums that appear thick need to be treated. If the tongue functions well and the baby is feeding successfully, we do not need to do any procedures. Dr. Stuppy has written a summary of the guidelines recommended by otolaryngolosts (ear, nose, and throat specialists) on management of tongue, lip, and cheek ties that you can read here.
Tongue tie affects about 4 in 100 people. It is more common in boys and there often is a family history of tongue tie.
- Check your baby’s weight (we check length and head circumference too at standard well visits)
- Ask about your baby’s feeding, bowel, and sleeping habits
- Do a physical examination
- Ask questions about development (in a pre-visit survey- watch for these texts before visits
- Ask if you have questions or concerns about your baby
- Update immunizations as recommended per our office schedule and standard guidelines
HOW IS IT TREATED?
We usually schedule the first visit 1-2 days after discharge. You will need to call to schedule this visit. Due to the nature of our scheduling availability, you may be asked to schedule with a member of our team that you have not yet met, but we think you'll like every one of our physicians and nurse practitioners. All have extensive training and experience and work well together to care for our patient families.
After the first visit newborns usually have several weight checks to be sure they are feeding well and establishing good weight gain. After that, they follow the typical
well visit schedule.
PHOTOS FROM STANFORD.EDU
Our physicians take turns seeing newborns in the hospital. You may get to see a face you already know or meet someone new, but we all trust our work teammates to take great care of our patients.
There are times that newborns require evaluation and care from a neonatologist (specialist in newborn care), such as if your baby is premature, has breathing difficulties, is suspected of an infection, or has need of intensive care. The local neonatologists will update us on how your baby is doing before they go home.
In the office
We see newborns at the following hospitals each morning:
WHEN THE TONGUE'S MOVEMENT AFFECTS FEEDING, A FRENOTOMY MAY BE RECOMMENDED
- Infection
- Bleeding (usually minor)
- Swallowed blood can lead to spitting up
- Damage to salivary glands (rare)
- Need for more surgery
- Feeding aversion
After the clipping the underside of the tongue will get a yellowed area (called "granulation tissue"). This is the normal healing tissue and will resolve within a few days.
What if your baby needs special care?
If you will be delivering at another hospital, just give us a call after you deliver to schedule your first visit. Please bring any paperwork given on discharge to your first visit. This may include your baby's birth weight, discharge weight, any lab values - such as bilirubin, screening results (such as hearing and cardiac screens) and any other information provided. This can help us learn about the hospital stay and continue care most effectively.
Newborns are scheduled to see one of our nurse practitioners or pediatricians for each visit. While we know that you will eventually see one of our staff primarily, initially it may be necessary to schedule with another person.
We all trust each other to work within our team, and newborns present the unique circumstance of needing a visit without much notice. Most of our routine well visits are scheduled 2-3 months in advance, so we hold spots for newborns, but it may not be with the person you will choose to see long term. We know this is not ideal because you want to introduce your baby to your chosen practitioner, but we cannot all have newborn spots open or it would cause scheduling issues for all the other patients - including your family long term. While we each have our unique personalities and bedside manners, we all follow standard care guidelines and will take great care of your little one!
If you want to learn more about us, check out the videos we have from each of our pediatricians, about our office locations, general medical advice we give and more.
Learn about each of the physicians and nurse practitioners on our individual pages.
- Work with lactation to improve latch
- Work with a speech pathologist or occupational therapist for feeding therapy
Kansas and Missouri each have routine newborn screens that are done in the hospital or birthing center to identify conditions that can be dangerous when not treated but not easily identified on a physical exam alone. The goal is to identify and treat diseases early enough to prevent serious complications such as growth problems, developmental delays, intellectual disabilities, blindness, deafness, and seizures.
You can learn more about the screenings from:
Risks of clipping:
Treatment of tongue tie involves lifting the tongue and clipping the frenulum (frenotomy).
A frenotomy can be done by trained pediatricians, ENTs, or dentists. Some of our pediatricians have this training, so if you're concerned we can make sure you get scheduled with one of them for an evaluation. ​There are local dentists who do a laser procedure, but this is more expensive and has not been shown to offer any benefit. (See Dr. Stuppy's review of guidelines for more details.)
​The frenulum does not have nerves for pain, and most newborns tolerate the procedure well without any anesthetic. We usually ask that they feed immediately after the procedure to assess their feeding.
It is recommended if the frenulum is very thick, posterior, very vascular or if there is a family history of bleeding disorders that an ENT specialist does the procedure.
We work as a team at Pediatric Partners - from the front desk receptionists, to our nursing staff, to our nurse practitioners and pediatricians, we're all here to take the best care of your family!
- Advent Health -Shawnee Mission
- Overland Park Regional Medical Center
In the hospital
Most of the time we can start our relationship at the hospital when we see your baby soon after birth, but sometimes we begin care after they are discharged from the hospital. We generally see babies in our office 1-2 days after they are discharged from the newborn nursery or NICU.
If you choose our office, be sure to let the hospital know who your pediatrician will be. The hospitals call us after the baby is delivered and we will see you each morning.
One of our physicians will round each morning in the hospital to check on your baby, see how feeding is going, and treat most problems that arise. Most babies are in the hospital 2-3 days and we see them on daily rounds to evaluate how they are feeding, how much weight loss they have, perform a physical exam, and discuss parental concerns.
As mentioned above, we work as a team. Our pediatricians take turns rounding each day, so you may meet several of us during your stay at one of the above hospitals and it may not be the pediatrician you plan to see long term in our office, but we will be sure that person hears all about your baby.
What if you're delivering somewhere else?
We occasionally care for babies in the Newborn Intensive Care Nursery (NICU) if they are there for a short time and for minor issues.
We have a relationship with the Neonatologists (specialists in sick and premature newborn care) at each of the hospitals. They help care for the infants who are requiring more specialized care and let us know when they're ready to see us.
Alternates to frenotomy:
During the visit we will :


The pictures are the same baby before and after the frenulum was clipped.

PROCEDURE DESCRIPTIONS
MOGEN CLAMP:
The type of procedure done is dependent on the training and experience of the person performing the procedure. Risks and benefits overall are similar. The final "look" of the penis will be the same after the first week.
Both types use a local anesthetic called lidocaine to numb the area. This injection may sting initially (sugar and a pacifier are used to help pain control for the sting) and the injection may leave a bruise at the base of the penis. Babies can still feel the cold of the cleaning product we use to decrease risk of infection and they can still feel tugging, but the sharp pains of the procedure are lessened with the lidocaine. The foreskin is pulled away from the head of the penis (aka glans).
The remainder of the procedure done and aftercare depends on the type of circumcision.
There are two main types of circumcision, one that leaves a plastic ring (Plastibell) on the head of the penis, and another that removes the foreskin and is left open with petrolatum jelly on gauze.
Care depends on the procedure done. After a baby's circumcision, it takes about a week to heal regardless of the method used.
After the healing has taken place, no special care is needed other than routine cleaning.
We recommend putting petroleum jelly on the head of the penis during the healing process to keep it from sticking to the diaper. If stool gets to the area, simply rinse with water without rubbing the area much. Reapply petroleum jelly each diaper change. We suggest you do not use any creamy products or lotions on the healing penis, as they cause irritation.

- The foreskin is pulled up and the clamp is placed over the glans, to protect it from being cut.
- The clamp puts pressure on the tissues to prevent bleeding.
- The foreskin above the clamp is removed.
- No stitches are needed unless there is excessive bleeding, which is a rare complication.
- The head of the penis will look open and raw during the healing process. This is normal!
- Change the gauze pad with petrolatum jelly (Vaseline) with diaper changes since it will be soiled.
- Rinse the head of the penis with water if stool (poop, bowel movement, meconium) gets on it, but usually simply changing the gauze is sufficient.
- Continue to place Vaseline gauze on the head of the penis until it is healed. You will know when it is healed when there are no more red or yellow areas.
- If there are signs of infection, such as redness of the penis shaft, temperature over 100.4F, poor feeding or fussiness, your baby should be evaluated.
Sometimes the penis will sink into the fat pad surrounding it, allowing the skin to reattach over time.

If your child's foreskin comes back over the head of the penis, push back on the fat pad to pull the skin off the head of the penis with diaper changes. Apply petrolatum jelly (Vaseline) to the area to prevent sticking.
If it does stick, it is called an adhesion. This usually doesn't cause any problems - remember that uncircumcised penises generally pull away from the foreskin over the pre-pubertal years. The adhesions of a circumcised penis will also naturally pull away over time. If they cause pain, they should be addressed.
A white substance called smegma sometimes is seen around the edges of the head of the penis. This looks like cottage cheese and is sometimes mistaken for pus. It is not pus and is a normal substance made by the penis. Gentle removal with a moist cloth is all that's needed if it's bothersome.
Circumcision types and care
The foreskin is attached to the head of the penis at birth and will usually naturally pull away over the first few years of life. A white substance may be seen as the foreskin pulls back. This is smegma and normal, not a sign of infection.
As long as the foreskin doesn’t easily retract, only the outside skin needs to be cleaned.
If the foreskin retracts a little, clean only the exposed area with water. Don’t use soap on this area - this can irritate the skin. After cleaning always replace the foreskin back over the head of the penis.
As your child gets older and the foreskin has completely separated and retracts easily, begin to teach him to clean underneath it as he bathes.
If the foreskin does not naturally pull away from the head of the penis an this causes painful erections, bring your child in for an evaluation of the situation.
Uncircumcised penis
A WORD ABOUT ADHESIONS...
After the Mogen Clamp it will look bright red and swollen initially, then less swollen. As it heals, yellow granulation tissue appears on the head of the penis. This is normal and NOT an infection.
PLASTIBELL
- A plastic ring (Plastibell) is inserted between the head of the penis and the foreskin and tied off.
- The ring is left in place until it falls off naturally, generally 3-7 days later.
- Routine cleaning with diaper changes is done.
- If the ring does not fall off within 14 days or if it slips down the shaft of the penis, bring your baby in to be evaluated. This is an emergency if it seems red, tender, or your baby has a temperature over 100.5F, is fussy or not feeding well.
- Track your child's development with FREE online tools.
- Find developmental milestone information so you can keep track at home.
- Pathways offers resources for infant and child development.
- Zero to Three offers resources for infant and child development and parenting.
- Did you know you can sign up for free weekly texts coinciding with your due date to help with every stage of pregnancy and the baby's first year? Visit text4baby for more details.
Milestone Tracking and Tools to Maximize Your Child's Development
Childcare can be done in a person's home or in an established child care center. There are pros and cons to each, so consider your family's needs to start your search.
ChildCare Aware has a searchable database to help locate childcare providers, check licensing of childcare providers and see inspection reports. Click on the state to find providers in Kansas and Missouri.
To help locate a childcare provider, learn how to find the best childcare, and more use this searchable database: Childcare.gov. Use their Tip Sheets to help find the best care for your child(ren).
Local Resources to Optimize Development
- Parents As Teachers works with parents to teach them how to teach their infants through 3 year olds.
- Infant and Toddler Services provides therapies for Kansas infants and toddlers through 3 years of age with delays in developmental skills, such as speech and language or gross motor skills.
- First Steps provides therapies for Missouri infants and toddlers through 3 years of age with developmental delays.
Daycare:
Colic (Fussy baby) Resources:
- Period of Purple Crying http://purplecrying.info/
- All Babies Cry https://www.allbabiescry.com/

As you navigate the exciting journey of caring for your newborn, there are some crucial topics we want to address, including our hot topic for the age: Tummy Time and Safe Sleep Practices.
Hot Topic: Tummy Time and Safe Sleep Practices
Tummy time and safe sleep practices are helpful for your baby's development and well-being. Remember to continue placing your baby on their back to sleep on a firm surface, as this reduces the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). It is essential to include tummy time into your daily routine to help strengthen your baby's muscles and support healthy development.
Tummy time is also a way to help prevent flat heads. When babies lay on their head, the brain can grow in all directions except down. Encouraging babies to turn their heads in all directions when awake, by stimulating them with things to look at and holding them in various positions, can help them work out any neck muscle stiffness so they will turn their head from side to side while sleeping. This allows their skull to grow evenly in all directions. Some babies benefit from massage and gentle stretching if turning their head is difficult. Talk to us if your baby prefers to look only one direction! A few simple interventions now might prevent the need for more costly interventions later.
To make tummy time enjoyable, try alternating holding positions and use books to engage your little one. Plus, did you know you can sign up for the Imagination Library from Dolly Parton to receive books for free? It's a fantastic resource to enhance tummy time and foster a love for reading from an early age.
Want more? View our e-book here
Let's dive into more detailed information about these topics and ensure your baby's journey is off to the best start possible with the detailed tips below.
Our website has many resources.
Some pages you might find helpful at this age include:
- Feeding Infants This page has several articles related to feeding your baby.
- Safety This page has a large number of subtopics to learn all about safety and prevention topics for your family.
- Newborns This page has a vast number of articles about infants, including adoption, colic, rashes common in infants, flat heads, and much, much more! Some of the most common questions:
- Newborn Rashes and Birthmarks
- Diaper rashes
- Constipation in Infants Many infants cry with bowel movements. Learn more about what many parents consider constipation (but isn't) in babies.
- Colic
- Flat heads
- Bumps on heads This page links to Dr. Stuppy's blog on lumps and bumps on heads.
- Is your child sick? This page has a searchable list of articles to help manage illnesses.
- Medicine dosages (there are no over the counter medications recommended at this age other than saline)
- Special Needs for those of you with children who have special needs.
Feeding your baby
- Feed your baby only breast milk or iron-fortified formula until 4 - 6 months of age. Do not give water or juice.
- Babies should get 10 mcg / 400 IU of Vitamin D per day.
- Estimated feeding amounts by age (varies by weight)
- 0-1 months18-24oz. in 24 hours1-2 months22-28oz. in 24 hours2-3 months25-32oz. in 24 hours3-4 months28-36 oz. in 24 hours
- Never give honey until 12 months of age.
- Hunger cues:
- Hands in mouth
- Suck or rooting behavior
- Fussy
- Signs a baby is full:
- ​​Turns away
- Closes mouth
- Relaxes arms and hands
- Hold your baby so you can look at each other during feeds. Do not bottle prop - that increases risk of choking, ear infections, and poor feeding.
- At 1 month babies take about 24 oz/24 hrs. This is 2 oz every 2 hrs, 3 oz every 3 hrs, or 4 oz every 4 hrs. Volume will increase by an ounce per feed by 2 months.
- Breastfed infants can start a bottle once breastfeeding is well established if they haven't started already. It is important to start a bottle before 6 weeks of age if you ever plan to use one or babies tend to refuse them.
- Never prop a bottle or put a baby to sleep with a bottle.
- Premature infants may require vitamin and iron supplements.
- Bowel movements (poop) vary in number - let us know if the stool is hard or has blood in it, but newborn bowel movements are usually NORMAL if they are
- any shade of green, yellow, or brown
- watery with flecks of solid like cottage cheese
- soft and mushy like oatmeal or peanut butter
- associated with baby grunting or crying. They need to learn to relax their anal sphincter while contracting their abdominal muscles. There is no treatment, most babies learn how to coordinate the various parts of pooping within a couple of weeks.
- Using any form of treatment might delay this process of learning.
- Breastfeeding is natural, but not easy. That doesn't mean you have to struggle alone! We offer lactation services. Insurance does not cover lactation, but we have discounts for Pediatric Partners families!
- For more feeding resources, see our
Feeding Infants page.
Help your baby optimize development
Your baby has experienced many new things and has changed considerably already in these first two months! We encourage you to hold and play with your baby frequently when they aren't sleeping. If you're not sure what to do with your baby, use the tools and local resources listed below to find fun age and developmentally appropriate activities.
You will get a survey before every well visit to assess your baby's development. We encourage you to do these a couple days before the appointment so you can work with your baby if you're unsure if they can do a skill. As infants get older it is important to know how to interact in an age and developmentally appropriate way because without activities directed at developmental skills, infants and children won't learn the skills common to the age.
MILESTONE TRACKING AND TOOLS
- Pathways provides weekly motor, communication, sensory, and feeding activities to support baby at their exact age and stage of development. They have a robust website and free app and we highly recommend using it.
- Track your child's development with FREE online tools from the CDC.
- Zero to Three offers resources for infant and child development and parenting.
- Reading to your baby daily has been proven to boost development. The Imagination Library will ship a free book to your home monthly for your child(ren) from birth to 5 years. Sign up here!
- Just In Time Parenting offers many developmental tools in English and Spanish delivered to your inbox once you sign up. There are PDFs, podcasts, videos, and more!
- It's not too soon to think about how exposure to time on screens (tvs, tablets, computers) will affect your baby's development! Check out the 5C's to ask yourself - with age-specific advice: healthychildren.org/English/family-life/Media/Pages/kids-and-screen-time-how-to-use-the-5-cs-of-media-guidance.aspx
LOCAL RESOURCES
- Parents As Teachers works with parents to teach them how to teach their infants through 3 year olds. This is available to everyone and especially encouraged for first time parents and families who will not use a daycare center, since daycare centers work on developmental skills much like schools do for older kids.
- Infant and Toddler Services provides therapies for Kansas infants and toddlers through 3 years of age with delays in developmental skills, such as speech and language or gross motor skills.
- First Steps provides therapies for Missouri infants and toddlers through 3 years of age with developmental delays.
How is your family doing? Is everyone safe?
- Safe sleep
- Put baby on their back to sleep in their own safety-approved sleep surface. We encourage tummy time, but only when supervised and not for sleeping at this age.
- Do not use positioners, bumper pads or pillows in the sleep area.
- If there is any possibility that you might fall asleep while your baby is in your bed, make sure there are no pillows, sheets, blankets or any other items that could cover your baby's face, head and neck or overheat them. As soon as you wake up, be sure to move your baby to their own bed. The risk of sleep-related infant death is up to 67 times higher when infants sleep with someone on a couch, soft armchair or cushion.
- Co-sleeping is not recommended, but is especially dangerous if:
- You have been drinking alcohol, used marijuana or taken medicines or illicit drugs that affect alertness. These increase the risk of suffocation of your baby.
- Your baby is under 4 months, small or was born prematurely.
- Car seat safety:
- Use a rear-facing car seat in the back seat.
- Do not use thick layers of clothing that bunch up under the seat belt. Use a car seat cover or blanket if needed.
- Ask if you do not have a car seat sticker!
- Do not keep your baby in a car seat when you're out of the vehicle.
- Make sure your baby always stays properly strapped in the car safety seat during travel.
- Always wear your lap and shoulder seat belt to better protect yourself in case of accident.
- Never drive after drinking alcohol or using drugs.
- Never text or use a cell phone while driving.
- Do not smoke or vape in the car - even if children aren't in the car, it is an enclosed space and your baby will be exposed to third hand smoke or vaping chemicals.
- Supervise children and pets around your newborn.
- Take care of yourself so you have the energy to care for your baby. It's okay to ask for help so you can take a nap to catch up on much needed sleep! Make sure you're eating a nutritious balance of foods.
- If you feel sad or very tired for more than a few days, call someone you trust for help. Both parents, not just the birth parent, can have postpartum depression and sleep deprivation. Ask for help when needed.
- Keep hanging cords or strings away from your baby.
- Don't let your baby wear necklaces or bracelets. These are choking risks.
- ​Always keep a hand on your baby when changing diapers or clothing on a changing table, couch, or bed.
- Turn your hot water heater down to below 120° F to decrease the risk of burns.
- Never place baby on bed, couch chair or any surface without constant supervision.
- Colic is common between 3 weeks and 3 months of age. Babies with colic are healthy but cry in spells. The spells happen at the same time of day, usually in the evening. During a colic spell, a baby:
- has high-pitched crying or screaming
- is very hard to soothe
- can have a red face or pale skin around the mouth
- may pull in the legs, stiffen the arms, arch the back, or clench fists
- To learn more about managing colic, see
- Period of Purple Crying http://purplecrying.info/
- All Babies Cry https://www.allbabiescry.com/
A new baby changes family dynamics in many ways. They are wonderful, but can add stress to families, which can put them and family members at risk.
- If you are worried about your living or food situation, talk with us. Community agencies and programs such as WIC and SNAP provide information and assistance. Find information about this and more on our Community Resources Page. See the "Economic and Financial Help" tab.
- Ask us for help if you have been hurt by your partner or another important person in your life. Hotlines and community agencies can also provide confidential help. Risk increases with stressors, and having a new baby is a stressor.
Health
- Tobacco-free spaces help keep infants healthy. Don't smoke or use e-cigarettes. Keep your home and car smoke-free. If you need help quitting, find information on our Community Resources Page.
- Newborns are susceptible to infections.
- Any temperature over 100.4 F at this age should be evaluated by a healthcare professional.
- Do not use pain relievers or fever reducers at this age - they may mask symptoms.
- Avoid crowds of people - especially when rates of infections are high in the community. If you must go to work or the store when infection rates are high, a well fitted quality mask can help prevent you from getting sick and bringing it to the home.
- We recommend that all caregivers stay up to date on their immunizations to help protect infants. If a caregiver is sick, they can
use precautions to limit exposure to others, especially infants.
Looking ahead to the 2 month visit:
We'll talk about
- Taking care of your baby, your family, and yourself.
- Your baby's developmental milestones - use the tools at the top of this page to prepare!
- Immunizations recommended at 2 months of age. Review the vaccines we'll give before your visit.

